The hair.
Lets face it, inquiring minds want to know, so here's the scoop.
According to the literature and every woman I have talked to, hair starts falling out between Day 10 and Day 14 post-chemo. Yes, 100 percent of the hair, 100 percent of the time. So Day 10 was Friday and I was watching like a hawk and yes, maybe a little more than usual came out in my brush, and more on Saturday and more on Sunday.
Monday morning I combed a small poodle out of my hair, put the remainder in a loose clip on top of my head for work. Tuesday I combed out a large collie, and put the remainder in the clip. The entire time it was not in the clip I could feel it raining onto my shoulders and arms and back like the touch of little butterfly wings. Wednesday, an Old English Sheepdog fell out in the shower. I called Bjorn in the morning and asked him to cut it when I got in from work. He looked at the hair in the clip last night and said he couldn't understand why I wanted to rush this. I said "Come into the bathroom with me", ran a wide tooth comb through one section of hair, just ONE section, and thirteen pounds of hair fell out.
So we had a champagne toast to my once and future hair, and cut it off. Its chopped, not shaved. No trauma, no drama, and I am actually relieved.
Over the weekend we took Kathy and Randy's tandem kayak to the Thousand Islands and paddled both days. Monday I went back to work and that has been very energizing. Lovely to feel so good and do such normal stuff.
You look marvelous darling. And today you can be whoever you want to be by just changing your wig. Have fun.
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